ECCLESIOLOGICAL ETCHINGS
June 15, 2022
Should I do the right thing? The good thing? The compassionate thing? Are they always the same thing? In theory, I think they are always the same, but in practice, I find moments when they do not necessarily align. There are times when my good help is enabling someone in their unhealthiness. What if my acts of compassion are, in fact, giving license for someone to continue down a path of self-destruction? Is there a different act of compassion that could bring more good?
In Colossians 3, Paul wrote: “…as God’s chosen people, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” It is an interesting mix of words. Some of them are what we do, others how we act, and still others define our inner attitude. Two words stand out: humility and patience. There are times when my ego seeks to fix the problem. I say to myself, “This shouldn’t be hard. Let’s just get it done.” But maybe I need to eat some humble pie and realize how I might only be one small piece in bringing about some good in someone else’s life. And patience is about timing. There are times when the necessary pieces have not yet aligned, and no matter how hard one pushes, the desired outcome will not be reached. And in the end, it will probably be helpful if we show ourselves some kindness.
God, I am trying to do what is good and right and full of compassion. I am trying, whether or not the results indicate it. Keep me keeping on, making room for you and the gifts of others to form the necessary team for true transformation. Amen.
